Dear Dr. Roberta,
My boyfriend just told me he wants to date another woman. He says he still loves me but needs to do this to be sure we are right for each other before we get married. When I tell him how much this hurts me, he insists he loves me and I should understand his reasoning. What should I do?
Confused, Michigan
Dear Confused,
You should dump him. He has no understanding of how his actions are affecting you. This is not a guy who is ready to get married. Find someone who adores you and is ready to make a commitment.
-Dr. Roberta